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Bitch:
Feminist Response to Pop Culture
When
people use the phrase "bad body image,"
it's often assumed this refers to anorexia and
bulimia, conditions endemic to white and middle-class
female teens and traced to the media and cultural
notions of propriety, self-control, and success.
Adios, Barbie editor Ophira Edut, co-founder of
HUES magazine, has put together a collection of
young voices that aims to step back from the vanillafied
idea that bad body image means skipping dessert
and logging obsessive hours on the StairMaster.
These twenty-five essays go far beyond "I
hate my butt and I'm gonna tell you why"
to bring body image into multiple and overlapping
realms of family, race, school, and sexuality. |
Here,
body image extends to the idea of remaining a virgin
until marriage, which, as Keesa Schreane explains in
"Appraising God's Property," means being made
to feel selfish or foolish or overly proud. In "Intimate
Enemies," Jennifer Berger describes the experience
of living with a series of elaborate and dangerous food
allergies and the queasy irony of hearing women tell
her they'd switch places with her if it meant being
so thin. Mira Jaccob, the author of "My Brown Face,"
recalls her younger self asking her Indian mother "Why
don't you ever smile when people tell you you're pretty?"
and growing up to realize that, when faced with men
who saw in her face only an exotic country to try and
"colonize," she's just as closed. And in "My
Jewish Nose," our own Lisa Miya-Jerivs explores
the implications of the fact that legions of assimilated
girls are urged to lop off the most visible reminder
of their heritage--not by makeup ads, but by their mothers
and grandmothers.
If
you want an answer to the question of why women bond
over hatred of their bellies, skin, and hair in front
of other women but never quite connect the same way
over loving those things, you won't necessarily find
it here--if Adios, Barbie makes one thing clear, it's
that understanding the many ways in which we're defined,
discounted, and distringuished by ourselves and others
is never a done deal. Many of the essays read with a
palpable sense of struggle and reticence, illustrating
the ingrained reluctance to be the one chick in the
locker room smiling instead of frowning at her reflection
in the mirror--but it's this girl-taboo that the writers
strive to break with no apologies. (Erin J. Aubry does
it particularly succintly in "The Butt: Its Politics,
Its Profanity, Its Power" when she concludes "I
don't have an issue. I have a groove thing.")
And
while that lean, mean, plastic she-devil is invoked
more than once--most enjoyably in Susan Jane Gilman's
now-classic "Klaus Barbie, and Other Dolls I'd
Like to See"--Adios, Barbie goes a long way toward
pointing out that, though the media is plenty powerful
in conspiring to separate girls and their bodies, our
own reconceptualization of ourselves can be just as
potent. (Andi Zeisler)
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